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The Challenge of Keeping Friendships Alive as an Adult
In the hustle and bustle of adulthood, maintaining friendships can seem like climbing a mountain. With busy schedules, life changes, and the influence of social media, keeping those connections alive requires more than just good intentions. Here’s an exploration of the difficulties involved and tips on nurturing meaningful relationships.
Understanding the Challenges
Busy Schedules and Life Transitions
Adulthood is marked by a series of transitions — from college to full-time employment, marriage, and even parenthood. Each of these life stages brings its own set of responsibilities and time constraints, making it challenging to keep up with friends. The spontaneity of youthful friendships, where time seemed abundant, fades into the background as calendars fill up with work meetings, family commitments, and essential self-care routines.
The Impact of Social Media
While social media platforms promise to keep us connected with friends, they often lead to a paradox of feeling simultaneously connected and isolated. The curated glimpses into everyone’s “best life” can create unrealistic expectations and feelings of inadequacy. Moreover, passive engagement — liking or viewing posts — replaces deep…
